RELATIONSHIP
We're not relationship experts — we're just two people who have been choosing each other for nearly 40 years and picked up a few things along the way. Take what resonates, leave what doesn't.
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A few basic ingredients that keep us in the honeymoon mindset after more than 30 years!
What I found in myself was a guy aggressively pursuing career, neglecting personal development and when it came to marriage, I was coasting. Looking back, I think it is likely that she was too, but the only thing that I knew then was that I could be better and up my game.
The simple intimacy of spending time alone and talking is of infinite value for your relationship.
In a healthy happy marriage YOU are that person for your spouse, and they are that person for you. No question. No hesitation. It’s in the vows, remember?
If we are expecting that being happy solves everything, and being happy is as simple as getting our way, well then we are in for a rough ride through this thing called marriage. But there is a surprising twist…